Friday, 28 November 2014

THE NARROW DIVIDES


When we step out into the world, there are various parameters on which we are judged by the society. It was not until I reached college that I came across the most “significant” criteria of evaluating a person’s worthiness – the caste to which he or she belongs to.

Contrary to the prevailing social practice, my childhood remained oblivious of this essential feature of a person’s worth. But once I ventured out of the sheltered environment of home, I was bombarded with frequent and often annoying questions and remarks like, “Your surname sounds a little unfamiliar”, “Which state do you belong to?”, “Are you a Christian?”, “Your mother’s accent sounds different?” or sometimes a straight enquiry, “Which caste do you belong to?”

I was then forced to reason out why we in general try to assess people’s abilities, their affability and their goodness based on the irrelevant and extraneous gauges of caste. I don’t want to go into the origin and evolution of the caste systems, but I am sure no system ever established could be a good one if it disregards the inherent virtues of a human being, and tries to go against the very tenet of equality of men.

Does just belonging to some definite caste make you more equal than others? I don’t think so.

When God created this beautiful world he made all men alike, then why do we wish to divide it into segments and sectors based on some irrational and inconsequential parameters. Leaving aside the more brutal and inhuman deeds that are committed in the name of caste, the least we can do is to give respect to each other and stop judging a person based on some pre-conceived and often spoon-fed notion.

Why not embrace each other regardless of these narrow divides which discriminate between fellow human beings? How does it matter which caste or religion we are born into? Why not celebrate the fact that we have been given this beautiful opportunity to make our presence felt by our actions and words and appreciate each other’s company in the true sense. The importance of benevolence, compassion and companionship is not confined to the matters of caste or religion. These are values which are quintessence of a good human being and should not be discarded…..